DEAR HARRIETTE: My boyfriend and I live together. He doesn’t like to party or go out, but I do. I like to be with my girlfriends and have fun. All of my girlfriends are in relationships, too. Anytime I tell him that my girls want to go away on a trip, he tells me to go enjoy myself. When the day gets closer, he starts to tell me he doesn’t want me to go because he doesn’t know what my friends and I will be doing and he’s not comfortable with it. I know if I still go, he will just constantly call and text me and I won’t enjoy myself.